I admire You..

One of the things I've always wanted, is to not only find love, but to find someone that I genuinely and deeply admire. I was reading a hub by a fellow hubber about respect in relationships, and it got me to thinking about what it means to admire the man that I hope to fall in love with. So I decided to write something to try and explain it. In my mind, there is no greater thing than for someone to truly be able to admire the one that they love. In my own experience, it seems as though I most admire things that are foreign to me.character traits and qualities that I don't possess. For this reason, I admire courage and boldness, because I don't generally find myself to be a bold and courageous gurl.

So, coming back to our original topic. I've claimed that the best thing ever is to be able to deeply and genuinely admire the one that you love. But in this, I've found an interesting truth. My ability to admire is somewhat dependant on what type of gurl I myself am. Being an old-fashioned romantic type, I've always fallen for mans who are sweet, caring, and willing to be emotional. I epitomize none of those characteristics, but am in fact the opposite of them in most ways. I waver very little emotionally, am very outgoing, and a happy go lucky person.